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Post by Luca on Jan 27, 2003 18:21:55 GMT -5
Ok, despite the opinions of my friends, I figured I'd ask you guys what to do. There is a girl at my school, who both my friend and I like. He recently found out about it, and has been an ass to me ever since. The girl said that she liked both of us (go figure.) What should I do about my "friend"? I know I can take him but I'm not sure if its the right choice... any input would be helpful, thanks.
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Post by Dragoon Tony on Jan 27, 2003 18:28:43 GMT -5
Don't get into a brawl or anything with him over it, if that's what you mean by "you can take him". Girls come and go, but friends can last a long time if you play your cards right. Maybe he likes really likes this girl, but if he was really your friend than he wouldn't be an ass over a girl. Just let her decide, but don't let a friendship be ruined over something as trivial as this. You're a freshman, right? Well, by the time you're a senior you'll realize that things like this aren't as big as people make them out to be....
I guess you should really just do what you feel you need to do. No one can really tell you want to do, and certain people will give you different advice.
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Post by Luca on Jan 27, 2003 18:34:46 GMT -5
I'm a junior Tony. And I know that its not something to really get worked up about, but he knows that I've liked her since like last year, thats the part that pisses me off.
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Post by SNK! on Jan 27, 2003 21:00:36 GMT -5
I'm a junior Tony. And I know that its not something to really get worked up about, but he knows that I've liked her since like last year, thats the part that pisses me off. Well, people don't choose the one they love...
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Post by OldSchool on Jan 27, 2003 21:22:23 GMT -5
Seems like your friend is just trying to be a dick about it, but whatever choice you make, make sure you dont hurt either of their feelings.
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Post by Luca on Jan 27, 2003 21:33:40 GMT -5
Seems you've read my mind OldSchool. But I will probably just keep my mouth shut, cause I don't like fighting and it seems like he really likes her. Thanks for your input guys
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Post by onidarkmoon on Jan 27, 2003 22:06:57 GMT -5
then i guess you made the right choice when you made whatever choice you did. if he is a friend, and he's doing this over a girl you've liked for a year, and he just started, let him try to get her...i normally don't say this like that, but that's the easiest way to. of course, you definantly shouldn't let someone come between you and your friend. that's where alot of friendships end. do what you gotta do.
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Post by Sokar468 on Jan 28, 2003 8:33:13 GMT -5
Seems you've read my mind OldSchool. But I will probably just keep my mouth shut, cause I don't like fighting and it seems like he really likes her. Thanks for your input guys Keep in mind that several relationships fall apart after graduation from High School when people begin to leave for college. As a junior, be wary of relationships unless you can expect to hold on to them somehow after High School. I wouldn't get too worked up over this girl, Tartare; but of course, I don't know her, so it's easy for me to say that...
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Ragnarok
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Post by Ragnarok on Feb 8, 2003 10:56:02 GMT -5
If he's gonna act that way, Then he cant be a very good friend.
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Post by Riou on Feb 12, 2003 18:04:58 GMT -5
look, if u like really really like this girl, then go for it. violence dont solve anything.... well not really
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