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Post by sharpshooter on Nov 15, 2002 21:33:25 GMT -5
Hello.If you don't mind could you help me out.I like a bunch of girls, and need help commmunicating with them and going out with them.But, there is a problem. 3 of the girls I like are going out with someone already, which sucks, and leaves only one left.Please do not start bull-shitting me about this.
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Post by Zynx on Nov 15, 2002 21:49:49 GMT -5
What kind of relationship do you have with this one girl if any at the moment?
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Post by sharpshooter on Nov 15, 2002 21:54:51 GMT -5
What kind of relationship do you have with this one girl if any at the moment? hmm, nothing really, she knows who I am, everytime I see her my pants break ;D j/k Everytime I see her she's always looking at me.I'm kind of a geek, no not a f*ckin loser with glasses and the such, I'm just known to be very smart.There could be a problem though, I weigh 180 and I'm 12.j/k!
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Post by Zynx on Nov 15, 2002 22:11:27 GMT -5
hmm, nothing really, she knows who I am, everytime I see her my pants break ;D j/k Everytime I see her she's always looking at me.I'm kind of a geek, no not a f*ckin loser with glasses and the such, I'm just known to be very smart.There could be a problem though, I weigh 180 and I'm 12.j/k! Hmmm....A geek just like me. Charm her with your incredible wit. ;D Is she looking at you in an interested way or does she have her upper lip curved up?
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Post by sharpshooter on Nov 15, 2002 22:40:31 GMT -5
Sometimes she smiles, sometimes she just looks at me.I don't think I can charm her with my wit, but I will try cause I WANT HER!
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Post by D-Guy on Nov 15, 2002 23:13:22 GMT -5
just become friends with her. Be persistent and if she likes being around you then you got a chance, but if she doesn't just accept it and move on or else you'll end up getting hurt. Also, this is just my experience, but for me and my friends it seems to me that girls don't talk as much when u are just friends. Me and my friend literally wouldn't talk to these two girls we were with unless they started the conversation. Quietest 2 minutes of my life. So just be yourself and she'll either love you or hate you. Plus make sure to keep good conversation with her. Relationships are more mental than physical. Also, don't break your pants when u see her. She'll be offended and your mom will get tired of having to sew your pants back together all the time.
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Post by Dragoon Tony on Nov 15, 2002 23:24:46 GMT -5
Hey, I'm really smart and have glasses, but I'm not really a geek! I just hate contacts.
First off, how are we supposed to help you solve your girl troubles if you keep joking around: "I'm 400 pounds, j/k or I don't have a penis, j/k".
D-Guy gave good advice. But I would like to modify something he said. I would say don't become friends with her, just really good acquaintances. You don't want this girl to pull the "if I go out with you it will ruin our friendship" crap. So befriend her, and if she's interested, your good. If not, oh well. Move on.
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Post by =EleMenTaL= on Nov 16, 2002 0:25:45 GMT -5
Actually, i would agree with the "become friends" thing, but not like " oh wow, we're happy and colorful now" . Friends like, get close to her, be there for her, and before you know it, she'll like you cuz you're a great person.
It worked for me, why can't it work for you?
Trust me, this gurl is the only gurl that ever liked me, cuz i'm not really the popular football player of the school, I'm jus an ordinary guy ( a geek meaning straight A's) and I became friends with her, became close and then one day, I asked her out.
Look for friendship not love at first, or the gurl might get uncomfortable, and dont hit on her just yet.
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Post by Amsay64 on Nov 17, 2002 10:41:26 GMT -5
Yah i got the lady probs too and now chicks have me targeted as the "smart guy" in our class (one class per grade at my school) and i was going out with a chick I REALLY liked then her mom found out blah, blah, blah.
Anyways to you guys what worked for me, FLIRT, if she doesn't flirt back wah wah. I flirted all the time with her and SHE asked ME out, crazy uh?
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Post by Sokar468 on Nov 17, 2002 14:32:53 GMT -5
Just a note:
If you find yourself constantly having to initiate things, then something is not going right. The relationship is truly mutual if the girl is taking part in arranging [lans, etc. If yo find yourself as the only one arranging things, I guess you can try backing off for a bit and letting things cool down.
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Post by D-Guy on Nov 17, 2002 14:33:27 GMT -5
flirting can work but its very hit and miss. I flirt with lots of girls at school who are my friends and they like it.
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Post by Crono789 on Nov 18, 2002 1:52:03 GMT -5
Eat right, wash your face, shower and conditioner regularly, exercise in some way(i skate), be a nice person. It helps to cut game playing time by to an hour a day. (blisters suck) if all else fails, or if you want, find some asian chick that likes gaming and get with her.
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Post by D-Guy on Nov 18, 2002 20:10:48 GMT -5
hehe asian chicks, those are few and far between at my school. A total of maybe 3-4 hot ones and like all of them are taken, but they're all bitches so I don't mind.
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Post by Crono789 on Nov 18, 2002 20:30:54 GMT -5
I think half my school is asian.
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Post by D-Guy on Nov 19, 2002 15:24:26 GMT -5
u live in california?
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